


I was leading my two older sons, Samuel (4½) and Jude (2½), in a rite of passage: watching U2’s Live at Red Rocks “Under a Blood Red Sky”. I was thrilled to be sharing this with them—explaining who the band is, what Red Rocks is (and that I had been there once but not at this concert), and seeing my boys soak it all in.
We had been sitting on the couch for the first 20 minutes when Samuel suddenly said, “Let’s get up and dance.” Jude jumped right up to join him. And with a big grin on my face, I got up, too, just as the band on screen launched into “Surrender” with Bono shouting to the crowd, “Will you dance with me?” It was then I knew that I was teaching my sons to fully appreciate rock ‘n’ roll, seeing that Samuel had anticipated Bono’s invitation to dance.
Watching the newly reissued, remastered DVD—which comes with a remastered Under a Blood Red Sky CD in a package like a miniature coffee table book with pictures and stories about the historic concert, I returned to those days when U2 was new to me, shaping and forming my understanding of rock ‘n’ roll. It’s a concert that captures U2 in their earlier stages, blending punk rock simplicity with swooping anthems aimed at taking the world by storm. What shaped me was now there on the screen shaping my boys.
Bono sang “cry,” and Samuel excitedly said, “Daddy, Daddy, he said ‘cry.’ Why did he say ‘cry’?”
It was then my role to explain U2’s lyrics about the Troubles in Northern Ireland and war in the world—yet put it in terms that a four-year-old and two-year-old can understand. “They’re singing about people who are crying because people are fighting in the world. U2 doesn’t want people to fight anymore.”
Then Samuel and Jude saw the picture from the cover of War, the boy being a backdrop for the band. Jude kept looking for another glimpse of the “sad boy” (“Where’s the sad boy, Daddy?”), and they both wanted to know why the boy was sad.
“The boy is sad, because people are fighting in the world. U2 is singing about wanting people to love each other.”
Samuel and Jude did really well in participating in my rite of passage assignment—whether watching intently, dancing, playing air guitar, playing with toys quietly in the vicinity of the TV, or in Jude’s case, crawling up in my lap to cuddle and watch. Yet, they started to get antsy before the final song which by now in my melodramatic nostalgia I had imagined being powerful for all three of us. I paused the DVD and told the boys that I really wanted them to sit and watch the last song with me. They complied, and I started the show again.
“Sing this with me; this is ‘40’,” Bono says.
Again, the boys asked about the lyrics, Samuel thinking that Bono was saying “hello.”
I explained, “No, he said, ‘How long?’ He’s wondering how long until people stop fighting. In fact, he’s asking God to come help people love each other.”
Then Bono said, “Thank you. Good night,” and it was time for Samuel and Jude to go to bed.
I hoped they were dreaming of the Edge’s guitar solos (a concept I had explained), Adam Clayton’s bass thumping (I had picked up each boy and pretended they were my bass guitar), and Larry Mullen, Jr.’s smashing drums (we had played plenty of air drums).
Even more, though, I hope Bono’s lyrics are part of their fabric as we look out on this new dawn under Barack Obama when perhaps there can be less fighting in the world.
U2
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